Let us be honest – you want a babe, not some guy moralizing your actions. However, are all those speeches on moral really just a waste of time, or not?
Once upon a time, I read Frank Herbert’s Dune [4]. I recall a chapter, where Paul Atreides fought to death for his first time. Of course, he won the battle, because there would be no sequels in the opposite case. As the body of his challenger, Jamis, laid down dead, Paul’s mother, lady Jessica, approached and asked him, what a great feeling it is, to kill somebody. She wanted to make sure that Paul will not start killing people, just because he can. A sermon time on the moral.
This material, The System [2] and The Theory of Interest [3], they are all a source of information, which can give you a huge advantage over other guys. These information change the balance of forces on the battlefield, we call the dating. When dealing with Miss Right [3], especially a beautiful one, you will not get a major advantage over her – your powers will be in a balance. She is a looker (at least in your eyes) and you are a challenge [2, 3].
There are guys, who love to brag about how many girls they’ve got laid on the first meet. And here you are, with all the powerful knowledge, and you don’t have such stories. We all know, Miss Right will not jump into your bed, just because you met her. It takes a time for a good reason. She has no moral of a bitch in the heat and she expects the same from you. Yeah, that’s all logical and it makes a sense. But how do you feel about it?
A strong-willed, intelligent gentleman with moral principles knows the truth – that he is right by pursuing Miss Right only. He won’t get down just because some lost case brags about a one night stander. Remember this, gentleman has a self-confidence and therefore he does not need to tell everybody, he had a sex. He was there – he knows it, so she does. Such bragging is just a sign of weakness. Think for a while, what kind of a woman would fall for a guy without a self-confidence? I would not take her.
It is useless to explain, how wrong he is, to the lost case, because he does not want to understand in the first place. But some of you are not lost yet. So, if you want to have a great relationship, pay a close attention to the following. Once you have the information cold down in your blood, you will experience the feeling of a huge advantage over other men. By pursuing Miss Right only, you might feel, as if you don’t use all your potential. That’s the breaking point, as you know you could get many women laid with a relative ease otherwise. And the price? The price of the easiness is not to be paid immediately – it is a devil’s agreement. The price is your finest future with Miss Right. By letting the others to drag you down, you will loose the skills needed to keep her high interest level (as they won’t be required). To quote Master Yoda, "Twisted by the easy-laid young Skywalker has become".
Some men have tendencies to overlook bad attitude of Miss Wrong, or even low interest level in them. Attitude of Miss Right with high interest level suits a gentleman with self-esteem. I date woman, because I like her look and attitude. If I leave her, it is not as she’s no Miss Right. It’s because she does not suit me and I have no desire to continue a relationship with her.
None of them was considered as a proving target, or to demonstrate something to my environment. There are women that we had our times with each other, and the present, Right partner.
Image Notice: Paul Atreides, as portrayed by Alec Newman in the Dune miniseries (2000)
